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I believe the only way to know your needs is to spend lots of time alone, exploring different activities and experiences to find out what you like and don’t like. Then sharing the things that give you joy with others ❤

I have had to deal with this with my adult siblings. It is very painful.

unfortunately, my niece has been brought up by two narcs and my brother calls her a princess, which now, that she is almost an adult, she has come to feel like herself - entitled. So there are no precious relationships left, they are all as bad as each other. I admit to have warned my children about this, even if it means they have cut contact with their cousin. I am not about to watch my own children being roped into more toxic relationships or being gaslit and suddenly turn on me if they are brainwashed. I much rather will carry the label of 'splitting' the family for the rest of my life. Was not my choice and I waited until I was 59 to go no contact. Heart broken completely about it all, but I will protect my children fiercely

my narc brother not only took their money but also 'looked' after them in order to control them. The parents were enabling him. The sister is a covert narc. I had to go no contact with all of them after they all gaslit and manipulated me. Urgh triangulation all around. I am done. For an empath like myself it was horrible to let go of them because I am not someone who lets go of family. Took me until I was 59 to make the final choice

Now i understand why world is such a shithole and soo many people are evil as fuck.

I am so grateful that there is a rational explanation for my irrational reactions to triggers that remind me of childhood abuse and rejection. I cannot just think my way to healing. I have a variety of exercises to help me heal. They are emotional, physical and spiritual exercises, that when practiced over time, have helped me to reprogram the wiring in my brain. I highly recommend his book, "The Body Keeps the Score," for a more detailed explanation. I also highly recommend "Radical Acceptance" by Tara Brach and her meditation videos. Thank you Dr. van der Kolk for your excellent work.

There always have existed people who had propensity for awareness, regardless of their demographic and conditioning. It’s not a new concept. Nor is the modern era more “evolved”. The human race births such members randomly and all across its many “cultures” as they are needed for survival and evolution of the species. The new age movement is not the significator of such people existing or evolving. Human nature is. One may or not be lucky to have one or both such parents- and even so, only oneself can grow and evolve from inside out, in which case adversity is the ultimate blessing and the ultimate teacher, much more so than any “aware” parent can be. The individual who chooses to grow will end up doing so regardless of their circumstances and will gravitate towards the collective human knowledge of how to do so. When the student is ready - the teacher appears. And yes, for some people these teachers can be their natural parents.

Interesting content but the background music is so off putting

My kids were the ones begging me to not go to Christmas or birthdays anymore because they could see exactly what their aunt was like!!

❤ Thank you for always presenting good videos and allowing us to comment. I don't recall early trauma, during my teen years I was criticized by other girls when we moved from Northern State in USA to a slower confusing state called Texas. I had a good sense of self. At 15 yrs old with my mother's permission, I attended a Parochial boarding school. Going home only few times/year. No more criticism from teenage girls in that town. Now as an older woman if I'm criticized, I hold my head high and keep on going 👠👠💄😄

Everyone has a therapist…. How did G Washington et al live beyond childhood?

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Deep grief was my teacher. Losing myself and everything I believed and knew, also helped me find myself.

Separation is the key. My mother is equally a narcissist alongside my sister.. both have created an inner circle that is impenetrable and continues the competition lifecycle with my other siblings. Separate! You will literally gain your health & wellbeing.

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First..I Forgave Them. Then I Forgave Me. 😊❤

dr barkley has videos that deconstruct Gabor assumptions

Wow really good, in the last few months I realised shame was just a constant feeling all the time. Childhood abuse. I ran from it my whole life, tried to reason with it, fight it, take on so much work and hobbies so I could never notice it, nothing worked. Then a few weeks ago I decided to let myself feel it, explore what I was feeling shamed about and I reframed it. Realising I don't sit around remembering the stupid things people do and that they wouldn't be remembering these events causing me deep shame either was a first revelation, then realising even if they did they had also done similar stupid things so who are they to judge, and as for the childhood abuse, well that really was the parents issue. I'm sure there's more work to do, but I feel so much lighter, I've cut my mother off, but I realise i might also need to cut off the sister and father as they were enablers and I just noticed how my body tenses up and feels anxious when they are around. I don't want to but maybe I just need to. I never thought I'd ever get on top of that constant shame feeling in my body, a relic from narcicisstic programming, but maybe I can. this is a great video.

Thank you Dr. ❤❤❤

Damn really important topic ❤

Dr. Gabor Maté is 100 % right with his analyses. Governments should listen to him. Maybe he should become Minister/Secretary of a Health Department.

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Thanks for sharing this educational video 😊

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It feels me like cursed😢😢😢😢

I can tell you that each kid especially went there is more than one kid Each has a different view of what happened and how they experienced things growing up……. Too as U said it can become a stressful situation for going around each other……. But in my situation. Everyone doesn’t talk to me…… but they talk to my kid who they want to & be around my kid and do things with etc When they want to do so for family outtings and other family events ….. which I don’t deny him from seeing them etc even though the entire family has their opinions of me as a poor parent, never respected me or cared valued me as an equal or as a parent , because I’m disabled and on social security and the other members of my family are not except for my mom lately ( within the past few years and last year my narcissistic father who she’s married to for 50+ years) taught everyone how to teach me within the family dynamics as I’ve been taught thru a therapist that I’m the family scapegoat etc

Hard to get away because I’m dependent on them

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Please learn prooer pronunciation of Gabor Mate ❗❗

Mental Health For All 2024

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❤ Gabor Mate MD PhD CM ❤

Be yourself. Everyone else is taken.

I don’t really know my older brother because we never talked and I don’t think he’s a narcissist but he was and still is jealous of me. For no reason, he made up things that were not true because his hatred towards me was so big. It’s so cringy that he’s my brother. I wish I was the only child rather than having a horrible sibling. It scares me to have more than one kid because of that.

It has been scientifically proven that Gratitude repairs the body. Be Grateful for Everything! It is either a lesson or a blessing. 😊❤

This one really hit me hard learning always ❤

The Word of God says, in the way Jesus told us to pray, that we pray to our Father that we are willing to forgive those who owe us debts as He forgives the debts that we owe Him because of our sin, which is continual in mind, heart and actions. Matthew 6. When I really embraced this distinction, that we are hurt and offended because people really do owe us a debt when they violate, abuse and in any other way wrongfully hurt us, I was able to forgive more easily. Still not easy, but easier. Like, I can forgive the debt they owe me of an apology and amends, especially because Jesus Christ forgives the enormous debt I owe Him. In this way I'm not saying that the debt isn't owed, I'm saying I'm canceling it owed to me, like God has so mercifully and gracefully done for me with His Cross. People that hurt us (and us when we have hurt others) still have a debt owed to God, and I can't change that, but that's between God and that person. But He tells me to forgive those that owe me this debt just as He's forgiven me, then I trust Him for justice and righteousness to be carried out. "Vengeance is mine, says the Lord." Romans 12:17-19 Dr. Mate said that his commitment is that people are free, free from culture, past restraints, to be authentic. I so resonate with this. It makes me think of Jesus words, " “If you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples, and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free" John 8:31-32. Truth with a capital T brings freedom, without question. As humans we are on an inexhaustible search for truth. When we find it, sometimes we don't like what we see so we retreat and make up something more palatable to our own sense of self righteousness, something like "truth is relative." But something so interesting is that Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except by me." John 14:6-7. So in the end, Truth is a person, who defines and contextualizes the concept of Truth. The Word also says that Jesus is the Word made flesh: "the Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us." John 1:14. So His Word is Truth. It's never been more important what people believe truth is, because after all, it's what sets us free. Shalom 💜🙏

I love how his message is so down to Earth and neutral, yet the piano tries to add a layer of drama. Made me laugh a bit. 😂

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Some criticism to help improve these valuable videos: The subtitles of dr. Mate's voice help much, but is incomplete, and sometimes displayed too short a moment to read. I understand his voice was not recorded in a studio, but under 'live' circumstances. It makes complete subtitles all the more important.

That's untrue I don't trust this man

Genetic factors for alcoholism is also a proven risk factor as well as childhood trauma. Alcoholism has been known as a family disease for centuries. And associated addictions as well. It is a complex area of dysfunction

🎯🎰 !!! THANK YOU! My oldest sibling; I went through this my entire life, and now that our parents are gone, going through it with them as you stated. And my sibling is just the most immature, disrespectful person to my children & myself & other sibling. It truly is rough!! Really truly appreciate you shedding light on this! 😘♥️

Beautiful soul helping humanity! 🌺🌸🙏💗💚

Amazing inspirational story about Shannon. Just what I needed ! ❤

my older sister never played with me as a child...she hated the day we all were born...

Thank you very much. I'm finding so much valuable information on your channel. God bless you ❤a🙏

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